I've now had my 20 week scan, and everything is perfect - all in the right places and the right sizes. We even found out we're having a girl!
Sadly, I have also found out that I am going to have to put my darling cat Freddie to sleep after the weekend as it seems that he has leukemia, or cancer of some sort, plus some other unknown complication, meaning (amongst other things) that he has lost 20% of his body weight in the last 3 weeks, he won't eat, and he has just lost his spark. Can't write any more as it is too sad. He's only 9, my poor baby.
A life comes in, a life goes out.
I'll always love you, Freddie.